Then it happened to me last night. No, I didn’t randomly text a Dude to see if he wanted me still. I got a message from Mr. New Guy. Now I was pretty clear in my last few texts to him post-date that I was just not feeling IT with him and wished him luck with his dating life. And I thought it was left at that. But it has turned into an email on OKCasking me to clarify WHY I didn’t feel IT with him. I didn’t feel I needed to respond to it because honestly, do I owe him any explanation? We’re grown ups. We date. I’ve dated a few guys who’ve told me that IT just wasn’t there and you move on…albeit after a few pints of Cold Stone and a good bottle of wine, but you pick it up and move on. No harm for the long-term and no Foul for being ubber honest and upfront. I dig it when a guy is clearly able to tell me that he’s just not into me or he’s not looking for the same things I am. It’s easier. Less investment and less fuss. Oh and less ice cream consumed post-news breaking. So last night when Mr. New Guy hunted me down on Yahoo! IM and messaged me relentlessly for an hour to get a response. He moved from the very straight forward to the accusations that I ‘teased’ him during our ONE date into believing I liked him. He was also pretty sure we were going to kiss and that meant I liked him. (we didn’t kiss BTW) Finally I had to Block him. I would list all the messages but after I blocked him I couldn’t view them all…